When you were lost

Sometimes, the things that are happening to you at the present moment can feel very overwhelming, like it occupies your entire living space, and failing of which to look at these issues, it shows your mindlessness and carelessness.
But, if you would just take a step back and look at the situation, it just seems so surreal, like it didnt even matter, to a big extent.
However, most of the times, we are blindsided by all these fiascos that we might not have the mental capacity or insights to look at things objectively,  and honestly, probably need to find someone whom you are comfortable, to talk to. You'll never know if they can give you the most invaluable piece of advice.